一夫一妻制

研究发现，天生倾向专一的人往往与喜欢探索新体验的人相互吸引、结为伴侣。专一对前者更为自然，对后者则更像社会枷锁。婚姻中两种类型的人需要学会欣赏彼此的差异，诚实面对自我，有意识地经营关系，而婚姻的最终形式远不如构建这一形式的过程重要。

心理学家克里斯托弗·瑞安在TED演讲中挑战了传统一夫一妻制观念，认为以更细腻的视角看待性与关系，有助于人类整体变得更明智。《超级有趣》杂志对其演讲进行了图文并茂的视觉化呈现。

Infidelity is already defined in a very personal way, and it’s not unusual for members of a couple to disagree about it. Will AI complicate matters, or save monogamy?

When I ask couples who are monogamous if they have negotiated their monogamy, they look at me with confusion. They think that question should only be for couples who are open.