情感支持

What we expect in moments of suffering is compassion and kindness. You may feel more comfortable giving advice or offering your perspective, but empathy is about others.

心理学研究表明，我们在判断自己是否让他人感觉更好时，往往过度高估自己的贡献。我们倾向于依赖对方的”情绪基础概率”，而非真正关注自己介入前后的情绪差异，尤其容易对本就乐观的人高估自身的帮助效果。

It's painful to see a friend stay in a bad relationship. Could you convince them to end things?