行为改变
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如何帮助伴侣彻底戒掉手机依赖
当伴侣沉迷手机时,关系往往首当其冲。本文指出,行为改变的核心原则是”让改变变得容易”——与其依赖意志力,不如直接删掉那些令人上瘾的App,以一次性决定保护未来行为。重新掌控注意力后,伴侣会开始更珍视真实生活中真正重要的事物。
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将伴侣的改变斥为”虚假”
Rejecting your partner's attempts to do things differently because it's "fake" is perfectly normal. But it also blocks your relationship from developing.