饭桌上可以问家人的10个问题

Plus: 3 stories of gratitude and generosity from StoryCorps

感恩节餐桌插图

附:StoryCorps精选3个关于感恩与慷慨的故事

从第一口火鸡到最后一块派,总会有那么一刻:餐桌上的话题陷入沉默。你会怎么做?如果是与泛泛之交共餐,你或许会把闲聊引向深刻的话题。但若是与家人朋友围坐,想要加深彼此间的情感纽带,不妨试试以下10个问题——由StoryCorps创始人(同时也是2015年TED大奖得主)戴夫·艾赛推荐:

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你心存感激的是什么?

你最引以为傲的是什么?

迄今为止,你人生中最幸福的时刻是什么?

你人生中最艰难的时刻是什么,你又是如何度过的?

你在生命中学到的最重要的人生道理是什么?

你会如何描述童年时的自己?那时你快乐吗?

谁对你最为善待?

你希望被人如何铭记?

如果你的曾曾孙辈多年后能够听到这段话:你有什么智慧想传递给他们?你希望他们知道什么?

如果你可以向生命中的某一个人——无论在世还是已故——致敬,聆听他们的故事,那会是谁?你会问他们什么?为什么?


需要先寻找一些灵感吗?以下是由戴夫·艾赛精选的3个关于感恩与感谢的故事。想聆听更多感人肺腑的故事,欢迎收听这7个难忘的StoryCorps故事集,并阅读《情感纽带:StoryCorps成立十周年精选爱与感恩故事集》。

“我在当地报纸上登了一则广告,自愿为十二个人烹制感恩节晚餐。”
“斯科特·麦考利回忆起25年前,他如何开始为那些无处可去的陌生人举办一年一度的节日晚宴。”聆听他的故事。

“如果我们离开,他们就没有人照顾了。”
“2013年,莫里斯·罗兰在加利福尼亚州一家名为’山谷泉庄园’的老年辅助生活中心担任厨师。他在前一年秋天为朋友米格尔·阿尔瓦雷斯在那里谋得了一份清洁工的职位。然而同年10月,管理该养老院的公司突然关闭了机构,致使许多老年居民无处可去……

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