个人成长

我们崇拜成就。这付出了巨大的代价。

与智识相当的人约会，除了能带来即时的化学反应与妙趣横生的对话，还有两大深层的长期益处：高质量的沟通与个人成长。研究显示，在约会应用上，学历越高的用户往往获得更多关注，而智识上的契合也被认为是长期关系中最重要的因素之一。

Think it’s not your job to teach your partner how to love you better? Think again. You might get the relationship you're longing for.

Everyone likes to talk about their victories. But what about the hurdles they overcame to achieve them? Below, 11 TED Fellows open up.

To help you take the sometimes-nebulous concept of positive life change and turn it into something more tangible, watch for these tell-tale clues.

Curtis Carroll turned his life around in San Quentin by learning the stock market, and now he’s teaching others to do the same. Here, he shares some basics to know before you start buying stocks.

沙卡·森戈尔十九岁因枪杀他人身陷囹圄，在狱中度过了漫长的十九年。正是文学的力量改变了他的人生轨迹。他分享了八本书——从马尔科姆·X自传到柏拉图、一行禅师——这些书将他从黑暗中托举而出，并让他深刻领悟：一个人最糟糕的行为，并不能定义他的全部。

Leadership expert Roselinde Torres suggests three big questions you should ask tomorrow’s leaders, and provides useful articles and books to get started.

While studying for his Ph.D, Uri Alon had a meltdown; his research was going in loops, all paths leading to dead-ends. A way through the pain came from an unlikely source: improv theater. We might all do well to try it.

即使是感情稳固的伴侣，有时也需要独立追求各自的兴趣与目标。暂时的分离不仅能让双方各自成长、习得新技能、改变日常规律，还能激发创造力、增进对彼此的珍视与感激，最终为整段感情注入更多活力。