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  • 如何与伴侣更好地争吵

    伴侣间的冲突不可避免,但了解”我方偏见”和”基本归因错误”等心理偏见,能帮助我们在争吵中减少自我保护式的固执,转而寻求共识,从而实现更有效的沟通与更和谐的关系。

    05/30/2026
  • 当不切实际的期望变成怨恨

    Here's how to keep your expectations of others in check so you aren't disappointed.

    05/30/2026
  • 心理治疗的真实费用

    Your session fees not only cover the time you are working with your therapist, but a number of services that occur between sessions.

    05/30/2026
  • “冷落”伴侣去刷手机,会让对方有何感受?

    Looking at your phone instead of your partner may feel harmless in the moment, but it could lead to retaliation and resentment. Here's why.

    05/30/2026
  • “情感性单身”之痛

    本文提出”情感性单身”这一新概念,用以描述那些非自愿单身者所经历的深度负面情绪,包括愤怒、绝望与自我厌恶。作者认为,相较于”incel”等带有贬义的文化标签,这一概念更能聚焦于个体的主观痛苦体验,并有助于从进化心理学视角探讨单身排斥感这一跨越文化与时代的普遍问题。

    05/29/2026
  • 父母应该优先重视婚姻的五个理由

    Many parents put their children first. But overfocusing on the children can tax your relationship an leave young adults with no model for their own intimate partnerships.

    05/29/2026
  • 破解一个关于求爱行为的迷思

    与普遍认知相反,在求爱仪式中,女性才是真正的主导者。从最初的微笑、挑眉到头部倾斜,再到相互凝视与肢体触碰,每一步都由女性发起或调控。了解这一求爱序列,有助于男性正确判断关系进展,并避免不当行为。

    05/29/2026
  • 我们为何不够懂得欣赏?

    Appreciation is opening your heart to allow yourself to be enhanced by certain qualities of people or by the beauty of nature or art.

    05/29/2026
  • 批评与奉承:强迫症中隐性寻求安慰的策略

    寻求安慰是强迫症的核心特征,但批评和奉承这两种隐性策略往往不易察觉。批评可通过激起对方的防御反应获取安慰信息,奉承则通过让对方感到良好来维持其持续提供安慰。本文探讨如何识别这些隐性模式,并通过承担责任、坦诚对话及引入治疗支持来加以改善。

    05/29/2026